Hello all,
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My wife and I have been dated for more than 7 years before we get married, there are some important aspects that I want to share with you to make the bonding between you and your significant half stronger and better:
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{( Q+ @, Z# V1 |: l! I: A$ |1) Considerate,
( j; m% Q& o" r# `5 Pwww.tvboxnow.comLet her finish her say Basically, that means DON'T INTERRUPT HER. Firstly, it's rude, and secondly, that just shows you're not paying attention to her. If you've got anything to mention, at least wait until she comes to a pause before you share your side of the story. It's not like she won't stop to breathe or something.
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2) talking and listening to your partner in order to understand their feelings and desires.
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: B1 q) S! v2 g# w) X4 X9 AExpress your empathy Tell her that you understand what she's feeling. Don't tell her that you think it's ridiculous or whatever to feel the way she is. Girls are more emotional and dwell on stuff more.
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3) Avoid criticizing and judging a partner<== This is the crucial part, never think yourself is better than any person in this world. Show your love Demonstrate that you love her despite what she is feeling. Say you still love her and assure her that nothing will change that. Then ask if you can give her a good hug. Girls love cuddles. Your assurance will mean a lot to her.www.tvboxnow.com/ ~+ _* L9 e0 q: I/ T4 B
5 e/ g& z& x; R公仔箱論壇4) Rise to the occasion, I know what you're thinking and no, i'm not talking about 'rising' to that kind of occasion. Pull yourself up and be there for her. If it is something you can do, take charge and follow through. Girls like guys who aren't fickle-minded, and especially those who give the feeling that they can be relied on.
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: T# e6 G# ` N, I4 Ztvb now,tvbnow,bttvbI wish everyone who's single could find someone that you love, and I wish every couples could have a wonderful life together!
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發表於 2012-1-13 06:17 AM
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