[疑難求助] 你曾經是第三者嗎?

jennchl

請問有誰曾經第三者?  我愛上了一個已有女朋友的男人.
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和他做了好朋友三年, 最近大家才對大家表白, 才知道大家已經一直喜歡對方但沒有表白.3 C) S% k5 _* m3 z& {

' c4 ~: J& q& [6 V: o2 ^$ b公仔箱論壇我們深愛著對方, 可惜不知道應該怎麼辦, 他跟他的女朋友已經十三年了, 並且是同居, 我不是很樂觀, 有時候真的很想要他認真的選擇和決定, 可是我非常害怕聽到一個不想聽的答案, 所以遲遲都沒有問.
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& U: q8 ~1 |; l2 ^$ Dwww.tvboxnow.com以前也會和他的女朋友大家成群的出去, 現在因為他的女朋友感覺到我和這男人的感覺, 所以她很討厭我, 並要這男人跟我斷絕來往.  現在我們只能用有限的時間通通電話和吃飯. 他很失落, 他說他很害怕失去我, 我亦很害怕失去他.
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0 i/ ^, Q: r2 Wwww.tvboxnow.com請問大家, 我做錯了, 是否應該退出? 還是主動爭取?

jennchl

any suggestions?

guandesu

愛情沒有對錯,或許只有愛錯

十年一剑

给他限定一个时间，做出选择。

jennchl

I'm so scared of hearing the NO answer....

icceti

are you making a choice or are you letting him make the decision?
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but you can't say after a few years of being with you, he won't fall in love with someone else.
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a no is better than none.  you'll suffer even more watching them get married, have kids and you are alone by yourself.! }% A, r" J, }
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[ 本帖最後由 icceti 於 2009-4-11 01:01 AM 編輯 ]

tommyjai

i have hear someone told that: o, i% p3 G% n2 w; n# E# {0 A
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u should reject before it rejects u

xiehuoli

建议你退出吧

beckham07sky

Ask him to make a decision.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb7 y. N( u( @1 X1 e/ V
If he really care about lost you, he must do that.
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GOOD LUCK!!

dream1972

天下何处无“杂草”？何必和人争？十三年的感情，他今天能这样对他目前的女朋友，难保他十三年后“主角”换你当了，所以请三思。。。

xxx728

给他限定一个时间，做出选择。www.tvboxnow.com8 f9 ]6 Y+ F, O: u0 B# a: A
十年一剑 發表於 2009-4-10 08:18 PM

一針見血i agree with that
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kathy1234

其实我也和你一样~也是喜欢一个有女友了的男生~我每次听到他说他和女友出去~或陪女友而没找我~我听到会很失落~公仔箱論壇7 F( j; g9 `! i3 n2 W5 A6 w4 E
但是毕竟我不是他的谁~他既然有女友了~就应该祝福他~
4 o9 h% u6 a6 m) M) f# f不应破坏他们的感情~13年的感情不是说完就完的~; ~( ?! N. y1 H3 w

. M# W9 f- y- |: S& Q& t2 ^$ H你好好想吧~如果真的喜欢他~不一定要和他一起~可以祝福他啊~
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勇敢点！~~